Right vs Wrong and Life

This is something I've been thinking about since Monday night, lots happened that night. Mostly is there a "right" way to live your life?

I generally think that life just sort of happens, nothing ever goes as planned and if it did it would be pretty boring. I believe that The Matrix was correct in thinking that if humans were offered paradise they would reject it, its like freewill would be taken away and humans love freewill.

I believe that some ways or somethings are better than others, but than comes a difference of opinion. Most people would agree that murder is wrong, but some define murder differently. Some believe to eat animals is akin to murder. Some believe abortion is a form of murder, and that also depends on how far along the baby is.

So while there are some ways that might be better, or maybe more socially acceptable, that doesn't make them right. In the opposite, going against the social norm doesn't make it wrong.

We are all individuals, what works for some does not work for all. We need to do what works best for us individually with the least amount of affect on others.

I may live my life differently than most but its still a pretty darn good life. I need to do what is best for me regardless of the opinions of other people.

Someone I know made this decision earlier this year, ever since then she has learned a lot about true friendships and strong relationships... I have a feeling I'll be learning the same thing in a few months...

Around but not "here"

I'm still around, living my life, trying to do or improve different areas of my life, lots going on, not sure how much I will write anymore, sometimes I fell when I write about the good it goes bad, and when I write about the bad it gets worse. Perhaps I'll throw up random observations now and then. If you really want to know what is going on in my life than be friends with me on Facebook. Hope you're all doing well and have had a great year.

busy busy busy...

it must be about time for an update. not that I think I have tons of readers who hang on my every word, but I do know of a few people who check up on me now and then...

Vacation is coming up very soon, so much to do and so little time. Thankfully some things have been cancelled or rescheduled so it's not as busy as it could have been. Last weekend I spent with some girlfriends at a scrapbooking retreat. So much fun spending time with them and getting to know others even better. Loving them all! I actually got some pages completed, got some others started, and planned for others as well. Still have so much to do.

Surprise! I reconnected with a friend that I thought I had lost earlier this year. She has been through some very rough times this year and we're working on fixing our relationship. Love her and her family dearly. Hoping I get a chance to visit them sometime soon.

My Irish Man... well... things could be better, but they aren't worse. His new job has him spinning in circles and he's so very busy. He has actually had to take a step back from us, he can't put into our relationship everything he wants to, he simply doesn't have the time. But we're still talking, still getting to know each other, still trying to find time to spend together. He is still so wonderful and kind and affectionate, I miss him terribly.

Life

Life has a strange way of happening when you don't want it to. You're content in where you are, what you're doing, who you're with, etc. And then life happens and things get all shaken up, kind of like a snow globe, and it takes a while for things to settle back down.

Yes my life has been shaken up, I'm getting used to it, it's not something I would have picked to have happen or to happen now. I'm working through the various aspects and am continuing to move forward.

I always wonder where the road will lead and tend to forget about the path I'm on, looking 10 steps ahead instead of the one I'm about to take.

how i'm doing..

ugh it's been a while since I posted anything. Life has been crazy hectic, busy busy life! Which is a good thing and a bad thing at the same time. The Rendezvous was a success, or at least no complete major breakdowns and I think everyone had a good time :) I did decide that I'm going to continue through the 25th anniversary and then someone else can take over. By that time I'm sure I've had more than enough of all of it and will be ready to get back to some fun :)

Irish Man... well I'm confused, we gotta work on that communication thing, but I still very much so enjoy spending time with him. I believe he enjoys spending time with me :)

I'm getting excited for next month and for celebrating my birthday all month long :) I've been making plans and scheduling things and I can't wait to see everyone!

Okay that's all I've got for now. Still lots going on... whee!!!